When you create a medical power of attorney, you designate someone to act as your agent. Legally, this person has the authority to make medical decisions on your behalf—but only if you become incapacitated and cannot make them yourself.
Choosing the right person for this role is incredibly important. Here are a few key considerations to keep in mind:
How much do you trust them?
This person may be asked to make life-or-death decisions, such as whether to continue life support. Even in less extreme cases, they will be approving or denying medical treatments. It is essential that you fully trust them to act in your best interests.
Are they comfortable with the responsibility?
It is wise to have a conversation with the person before naming them as your agent. Would they feel comfortable making major medical decisions under pressure? Could they handle conflicts with family members or others who disagree? Not everyone is emotionally equipped for this responsibility or wants to take on this role, and so it is important to talk about it in advance.
Is it practical?
Consider the logistics of an emergency medical situation. Does this person live nearby? Are they available and reachable in an emergency? Someone with a demanding job or who lives far away—a military member who is subject to a potential deployment, for example—might not be the most practical choice.
These are just a few things to keep in mind when naming a medical agent. Once you have made your decision, the next step is to ensure your documents are completed properly and legally sound.